i used linkwithin which was rather nifty, but realised that it slowed down the loading time of my page, so i removed the code to see if it would improve, and THE WIDGET REMAINED.
the linkwithin team were really good and fast with the bugs in my widget, but now i CANNOT REMOVE IT.
how odd is that.
anyhow. had a great day, and here's a sneak peek into what i got from my lovely bf! ^ ^